Possessing the gift of confidence, this person doesn’t seek others’ approval or sympathy to justify their choices. They could be an actor, musician or a successful public speaker. They are comfortable with their sexuality and unafraid of others’ disapproval. Such confidence is a powerful aphrodisiac and can attract people who lack the same level of self-belief. At the same time, they might find it hard to understand that confidence does not come naturally to most of us.

They enjoy socializing with friends and come across as friendly; engaging with others quite easily. On nights out they sometimes prefer to sit back and enjoy the show while others take centre stage. Dinner parties with friends where the banter and laughter flows easily may appeal to them more than wild nights on the town with new and different people. They come across as relaxed and happy and know when to ‘call it a night’. As long they have enough ‘me’ time they’ll always have time for friends.

Because they’re a sensitive soul inside, they can sometimes present a seemingly impervious outer-shell to protect themselves from psychological slings and arrows. They may be tempted to ‘fire the first shot’ in order to deflect any criticism even before it happens. Being sensitive – especially to the feelings of others - is a very attractive quality and displaying their soft side may bring out feelings of protectiveness in others.

They won’t be walked over by anyone but won’t cause any scenes either. They may appear indecisive but that could be because they prefer others to take control. Being fairly easy-going, their laid-back approach may come accross as lazy or uncaring. Being put on the spot makes them feel uncomfortable so if they need to make a decision they like to take their time and weigh things up. Even then, they may want to leave their suggestions open to debate – a trait others may see as fair-minded, team-spirited and inclusive.

Although on the surface this person seems to ride life as though it’s the crest of a wave – they have called the coast guard for information about tides beforehand! They are excited by new challenges and are happy to ‘go with the flow’ and try new experiences. They’ll be up for a spontaneous after-work drink with friends but not if it means they miss the last bus home. They’re independent and take balanced risks. They will be happy to date someone who is out of their comfort zone for the experience but when their instincts about a person or situation kick in, they’ll stop and listen. Although they’re ready for fun, they certainly wouldn’t call themselves reckless.

On the whole, they have a sunny outlook on life. If set-backs happen they may spend a moment licking their wounds but will quickly dust themselves down and get on track. Others find their attitude quite inspirational and they may find friends seek their advice. They take a balanced view on most things and will always err on the side of hope and positivity rather than brood on the negative. They’re open to new opportunities and will actively seek solutions to problems and explore new avenues rather than let life pass them by.

On the whole, they’ll believe in someone’s integrity until proved otherwise but they won’t give others as long a rope as more trusting friends. Life experience has taught them that they should be on their guard and opening up too soon could leave them vulnerable to being hurt. They will expect a new partner to earn their trust and may take some time to trust someone new. Once trust is in place they’ll feel relaxed and this will make any partner feel secure in the relationship.

They certainly can’t be accused of being stuck in their ways. They are flexible and able to embrace change. Although they abide by the laws of the land, behind the scenes they have their own ideas about how things should be done. They would consider themselves to be a moderate thinker and take a balanced and accommodating view of the world around them.